Planning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming, and this is a great reminder that regardless of everything else, it should remain a celebration of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s love.

Groom-to-be Benny Blanco’s fear of flying may ground his wedding plans with songbird Selena Gomez, concerned sources say. The music producer — born Benjamin Joseph Levin — and the pop princess turned actress began dating two years ago and are planning a ceremony in the fall.

While the soon-to-be-married singer and music producer have noted they're not rushing down the aisle, here's what they've said about wedding planning so far.